The best approach to a girl in contact. Tackling girls, phrases

You can’t just take it and roll up to a girl using a universal template. Each of the fair sex requires an individual approach and a phrase that will meet her current expectations. It is important to guess whether she wants to be laughed at, praised, made happy, told her something beautiful or moderately vulgar. To make the girl’s reaction extremely positive, you should use the tips built on the experience of many guys and a list of ready-made phrases for tackles for all occasions.

General rules for approaching a girl

It seems to guys that there is nothing easier than to approach a girl or write her a message with an offer of acquaintance. However, there are tricks here too, on which the success of a tackle depends to one degree or another.

In the Internet

Social media is the easiest way to get to know each other. Having studied the content of the personal page, you can get information about the girl’s hobbies, her manner of communication, the places she visits, and based on this, choose the right tackle tactics. However, for the acquaintance to succeed, you should follow a few simple rules:

Don't be pushy. Two hundred and ten messages sent one after another within an hour, the semantic load of which boils down to the question “why don’t you answer,” is the worst way to draw attention to your person. If a girl is interested in dating, she will definitely write an answer at a convenient time for her, and now she may be bathing a cat or preparing for exams.
Stay yourself. You should not introduce yourself as the son of an oligarch in the hope that greed will surge in the girl, and she will be led by a photo of an expensive car, secretly taken in a VIP parking lot. It is wrong to portray yourself as an outgoing and witty shirt-guy, being an introvert who has difficulty finding common topics to talk to strangers. Even if a girl comes on a date, she will be disappointed by the discrepancy between reality and expectation, after which it is unlikely that she will be able to establish contact with her.
To upload a photo. Guys prefer to communicate with girls who posted at least a few photos in their profile. But for various reasons, they don’t like to show themselves (they suspect that their appearance is not good enough or they are already in a relationship and do not want to be convicted of treason). This is the secret of most of the failures, as girls consider depersonalized accounts suspicious and, for security reasons, do not respond to messages.

In real life

If a meeting with a girl you like happened in transport, on the street, in a store or other public place, you can beat the acquaintance as an ordinary situation. For example, ask for help in finding the right address, complaining that the navigator gives incorrect data. Of course, you should not ask for a phone number immediately after receiving the required information, but as a token of gratitude for the service, you can invite your interlocutor to take a walk in the park or sit in a cafe.

In real life, it is possible to track the reaction of the girl directly during the conversation and defuse the situation with a joke in time or stir up interest in yourself with some intriguing statement thrown in passing. You don't have to neglect it.

And in order not to be refused an offer to meet or leave a phone number, it is important to follow the following rules:

Pick a moment. Approaching a girl when she is saddened or preoccupied with something is possible only if the guy is sure that he will be able to distract her from bad thoughts.
Take care of your appearance. It is unlikely that a girl will have an interest in a young man in unkempt clothes, dirty shoes, with unkempt or greasy hair.
Compliments are the right thing to do. If you want to say something nice to a girl, you should focus on her clothes or accessories (notice tasteful earrings or praise the original cut of the dress). Phrases in which there are features of the figure are perceived as undisguised flattery.
Don't chase the girl. It happens that the fair sex is not disposed to communication and literally leaves the conversation. Some guys take it as a game and try to follow her, insisting on getting to know each other. There is no need to do this, because the chances of a positive outcome are zero.
Behave naturally. On a subconscious level, a girl is able to catch insecurity and stiffness, and a set of template phrases and quotes immediately betrays a person without imagination.
Don't drag out the conversation. Perhaps the stranger is in a hurry somewhere, or she has other plans for how to spend the next few hours.

By SMS

Nowadays, few people use text messages, which are a built-in feature of the phone. Therefore, before writing to a girl, you should check if she is registered in special applications for exchanging SMS, photos and voice recordings. Most programs automatically add people whose number is entered in the phone book to contacts.

When communicating via SMS, it will not be superfluous to remember the following rules:

Tell about yourself. The guy has enough personal information about the girl, which means that she also has the right to know who bothered her. It is not necessary to post the entire biography in the first message, but you will have to give your name and age. It is worth mentioning the source from which the number was taken (given by a mutual friend, was listed on a page on a social network or on a dating site). This will significantly increase the credibility of the girl. But a mysterious admirer who carefully hides any data about himself, with a high degree of probability, will be permanently blacklisted.
Consider time. Sending messages late at night or early in the morning is, at the very least, impolite. Many people do not turn off the sound on the phone when they go to bed, because they do not exclude the possibility of receiving a really important call or SMS. The girl who was awakened in the middle of the night with the message “Hi, I always dreamed of meeting such a beauty as you” definitely does not want to communicate with its author.
Respect the rules of decency. You can switch to intimate topics only if the girl initiates it. And use obscene words and dirty jokes and completely unacceptable.

Examples of unsuccessful tackles

Before learning about what phrases the best way suitable for dating a girl, it does not hurt to get acquainted with unsuccessful examples of tackles. At least in order to never repeat them on their own experience.

Correspondence	Basic Mistakes
	The initiator of the conversation is the guy, but after the first sentence, he does not make any attempts to maintain communication. Girls do not like boring interlocutors, so such an acquaintance is doomed to failure.
	The desire to seem original is quite normal, but you should be careful in choosing epithets.
	The presence of grammatical errors in messages often makes girls reluctant to continue the conversation. And illiteracy, coupled with importunity, reduces the chances of a successful acquaintance to zero.
	Writing nonsense in the hope that they will seem funny to a girl is obviously a losing option.
	The ability to make compliments is always appreciated by the fair sex. Yes, and experts in the field of psychology recommend praising a girl's pet in order to awaken her favor for herself. However, in this case it is very important to follow the words, otherwise you can offend the girl inadvertently

The best phrases for dating

When using any of the phrases below, remember that there are no universal dating options. The words that one girl reacted positively to, the other can cause rejection simply because she was not in the mood.

Before approaching a girl, you should weigh all the pros and cons, evaluate the appropriateness of a particular phrase and be prepared for the fact that in the future you will have to show your ingenuity.

Original

As practice has shown, when communicating with an unfamiliar girl, you should not be especially original. Firstly, because it is impossible to predict her reaction to certain statements; and secondly, interesting and non-standard phrases taken from the Internet are not always appropriate in a particular life situation. If you really want to stand out from the background of the guys who roll up with the bored “Hi! How are you?”, you can use one of the following expressions:

Hello! I am lost in life and looking for a beautiful, smart, kind girl like you who will lead me out of this boring, dull world of loneliness.
Sorry, I forgot my phone number. You won't lend yours?
Unfortunately, I don't have time to melt your cold eyes right now, but I can call you in the evening.
You are so sad... Can I take your sadness? I need it for experiments.
It's awfully nice to see at least one girl walking slowly. Now everyone is running like that ... In our city it will soon be like in the ancient tribes: he caught up - he got married, he didn’t catch up - it’s his own fault. Have you heard of this custom?
I like you so much that I've been following you for three stops. Do you mind if we sit down and rest a bit?
What are you going to do tonight after we go to the movies together?
When I see a girl like you, I thank God for not being married.

funny

An ideal option to start a conversation with a stranger, because all girls like young people with a good sense of humor. It’s easy to come up with funny phrases yourself, but if your imagination fails, you can use one of this list:

The fate of mankind depends on your answer. Are you ready to get to know me?
Girl, I'm sorry to distract you from a very interesting phone game, but I would like to offer you a hand and heart. We have a shaft of this goodness in surgery, nowhere to go!
I thought about it and decided to buy a lottery ticket. Will you help me choose him as the goddess of fortune in human form?
What are you planning to do this summer? Instead of walking around the stuffy city and kneading the molten asphalt, come with me to my grandmother in Chukotka!
How I love your hat, your handbag, your watch, your coat and your wig... Will you be my personal stylist?
Attention! This street is mined and only I know the safe way. Let me take you.
I was told that you have a family recipe for cactus jam. I'm ready to do anything to get it... if necessary, I can even kidnap you and take you to the most beautiful place on earth.

Vulgar

The use of vulgar phrases is justified only if the girl has a good sense of humor and does not mind some frivolity in communication. The following phrases will sound indefinitely and interestingly:

Girl, you are wearing a very beautiful dress! However, in my bedroom you would look better without it.
We've been waiting for the bus for so long that you must be hungry. And by the way, I know how to cook a very tasty breakfast in bed.
Just don't look at me like a sex object! This excites me even more, and I will be forced to get to know you!
Let's make a $200 bet that you will refuse if I invite you to sleep in my bed?
Are you easy to get to know right away or do you only give your name and phone number after sex?
Hello! You look like a girl whose parents went to the country. I've been looking for this for three days, let's get acquainted?
I'm going to bed. Will you keep me company?

Banal

When it comes to banal and formulaic phrases, the first thing that comes to mind is the question of a mother who needs a son-in-law. He has almost gone out of use and is used only as a joke, although sometimes young people still try to "lasso" a girl with his help.

Hello, I liked you! My name is (name) and yours?
Hello girl! Allow me to get to know you?
I see you are carrying a very heavy package! Let me help you, and you will go to the theater with me as a token of gratitude?
Have you heard that a world-famous musical group is coming to our city? I have two concert tickets, but my friend won't be able to keep me company. Let's go together!
This is the third time I meet you at this place. It is fate that makes a sign that we need to get to know each other better.
Information has come in that such a charming girl needs a brave and reliable bodyguard. Ready for duty!
The gypsy told me to meet the most beautiful girl in the city. Finally I met her! What is your name?
Girl, what would you say to a young man who approached you with an offer to meet you?

Beautiful

Such statements will be appreciated by any girl. However, they must be pronounced sincerely and with warmth in your voice, otherwise they can be regarded as a mockery or banter:

We are so different, but I feel that we cannot live without each other, like yin and yang, like black and white, like day and night, like sweet and bitter chocolate. Let's get acquainted?
I watched the wind play with your hair and could not resist asking permission to touch it too. Will you be my angel?
The sparkle in your eyes makes me forget about my loneliness and sadness. Do you mind spending some more time together?
They say that in our time there are no knights. Not true, there is one! But he was always busy looking for such a beautiful lady as you.
On this cloudy day, only your smile makes me enjoy life.

Other options

A few more phrases that you can use to hit on a girl, no matter the situation:

You are one of the few in this city who has intelligence in his eyes.
Have you already tried to meet today? Not? It's good, I like to be the first.
I really love to read. But not books, but inscriptions on T-shirts. Unbutton your jacket, please, so I can see what's written on yours!
Girl, it's written on your face that you don't meet on the street, so let's go to the nearest cafe.
My alarm clock is broken, and tomorrow I risk oversleeping a very important event. Could you wake me up at 7 am?
If you continue to spend this much time in my mind, I'll have to charge you rent.
Do you know what I always carry with me? A spool of thread so as not to miss the opportunity to make acquaintance with such a beautiful girl like you!

Confident behavior, sincerity in the eyes and the right phrase can conquer any girl. However, in case of failure, you should not be upset - only on your own mistakes you can gain invaluable practical experience.

Hello, dear lover of women! And since you admit that I'm talking to you, it means that you certainly want to know how to hit on a girl.

I'll tell you a secret: in relations with women there are no rigid frameworks or strict regulations.

Very often improvisation or a banal “Hello!” will have a greater effect than any memorized phrase, because such a manifestation of you will be completely sincere, coming from within and reflecting your inner male core, if it exists of course.

But even if it is absent, it does not matter. Everything can be developed, everything can be learned.

Still, it's better to be prepared and armed with important recommendations, especially if you really decide to hit on a girl.

Classification

Directory acquaintance- you directly declare your intentions, clearly being the initiator of the acquaintance.
It's when you come up so confident and like, “Hi. I saw you, you seemed interesting to me, and I decided to come up to talk. What is your name?"
Also a working scheme, but you can use a different approach, which really requires a greater level of concentration, the presence of a lively mind and a certain amount of imagination.
Acquaintance in context- acquaintance arises as if by itself, as if you did not want to get acquainted initially.
This is when, for example, you are walking down the street, and a girl meets you, but suddenly you notice a falling meteorite and speak out loud so that the girl hears: “This is YES-A-A!!! What do you think about it?

By going through, you can find out from an article on the psychology of online dating the reason why the second option of the above classification is sometimes preferable.

Which girl would you appreciate more: the one who drove up to you herself, or the one you had to run after for six months (what a disgusting thing to run after a girl for six months)? That's where the thoughts come up in their heads.

He wants to be with me, which means I'm better than him, and I don't really need him. And in general, he is the same as all the other guys.

And in another case - what an interesting character, it would be necessary to get to know him better.

Therefore, your interest in relation to the girl can be veiled and shown in a dosed manner, for example, to show disinterest, then interest, then disinterest, then ...

If a girl decides to play the role of the snow queen, answer her with indifference. This does not mean running away, just be calm, without much emotion, without any compliments, and without using a big smile.

When you start dating, you don’t have to ask the girl’s name at all, let her be the first to ask your name.

Try to show your interest only when you clearly observe interest in yourself from the girl.

How to get a girl's attention

The first thing you have to do if you decide to hit on a girl is to get her attention.

Instead of just approaching a girl and starting an acquaintance, you can make her become the initiator of communication.

Example of non-standard behavior #1

You get on the subway and you start brushing off your shoes and kicking your feet. As a result, the girl looked at you.

You turn around and immediately say:

A blizzard of snow has fallen! Did you see?
No, what is true?

What happens when you get attention? The girl looks at you in the hope of finding out: “What is even going on?”, “What is he doing?”, “What is he planning to do next?”

And you immediately answer the question that she has not yet asked.

Example of non-standard behavior #2

One guy once saw a beautiful girl in a bar. She sent everyone off, one after the other. The guys did not even have time to turn to her.

This guy comes up to her and confidently sits next to her. She looks at him. He didn’t say a word to her, without even looking at her, loudly and brazenly declares to the bartender: “Bartender, bring me a beer!”

The girl is intrigued to see what he will do next. She waits for the guy to turn to her and talk, and instead of answering, she will immediately kick him off, like a dozen previous guys.

But the guy was on point.

He takes out a matchbox, slowly breaks the match and lays it out on the bar. Zero attention to the girl.

She sits dumbfounded by the impudence of the guy who sat on the chair next to her, although the bar is all empty.

He breaks the second match and slowly places it on the table. And so he begins to lay out a path with matches leading to a girl sitting next to him, who begins to carefully delve into this mysterious process.

Each of his movements is very demonstrative and cool.

Finally, on the 6th match, her patience bursts, and she asks the guy:

What are you doing? Why all these matches?
I'm testing you for intelligence (the guy answers without turning around)!
Me?! And how did I pass the test?
Not yet!
And what is it?
Haven't you figured it out yet?
If you understand, then you passed the test.
Do you always test women?
When I want to understand whether it will be interesting for me to communicate with her.
How confident.
Yes, like that.

After that, he turned to the girl and winked at her. She was embarrassed and smiled. Communication has begun.

He turned out to be smarter than 10 previous guys, making it so that this girl herself began to communicate with him.

Openers (openers)

Opener (opener) - a way to drive up to a girl (open a girl), i.e. get into communication.

A suitable opener at the right time can decide the whole outcome of an acquaintance.

Types of openers

Service.
Depraved and cheerful opener.
Compliment.
Compliment with a hook.
Accusation.
Advice.
Directive (direct) opener.
Opinion.
Joke.
Situational opener.

1. Service

→ Approach the girl and ask:
“Tell me where am I? I moved from St. Petersburg a month ago, I'm afraid to get lost.”
“Girl, hello! Can you tell me where the men's clothing store is located near here?”
“Tell me, please, what floor is the cafe on?”

→ Ask the girl to guard the bag and go away for a while, and then come back and continue the conversation.

→ Ask the girl at the store to pick out clothes or food for you to prepare dinner.

→ Borrow the girl's phone and call your number.

If a girl renders you a service or gives you her things, it means that she is already investing in communication and letting you into her personal space, i.e. communication is already established.

Just remember that a girl should not rush anywhere, and she should have free time.

2. Depraved and cheerful opener

The depraved and cheerful opener is based on the vulgarity you said, which is veiled as a joke.

Thanks to this, the girl begins to think in a sexual way, but perceives the information received from you cheerfully and adequately.

It will be great if you arrange everything in such a way that it is a depraved girl, looks at you depravedly and obviously wants something from you.

Examples

→ You're preoccupied, you're just crazy, do you have problems in sexual life? Why are you constantly thinking about sex next to me? Do you think everything is possible? I'm not like that!

→ You look so vulgar!

→ Are you silent - afraid that I will guess that you are aroused?

→ Did you go to the store to pick someone up? I knew it, but you're just vulgar.

→ You took my hand to hug me! I know, just give you free rein, you will hug me all over. Don't touch me with your dirty hands. Well, you just undress me with your eyes. Yes, you are a maniac!

→ No, we can't leave the crowd. I have a feeling that if we're alone, you might rape me.

→ How you look at me! What a vulgar look! Stop undressing me! Do you think I didn't notice?

→ Where are you looking? Why do you always have vulgar intentions! I'm afraid to be alone with you!

→ You have such perverted eyes. I can imagine what you have in mind! How can so much depravity fit in one person! And I wouldn't have thought!

→ I know something about you. You are now very excited, but you want to hide it.

→ I'll sit next to you... if you don't pester me, of course.

→ Oh you! No need to look at my body and think what you want to do with it!

→ Why don't we go to my place, draw the curtains, undress, get into bed, cover ourselves with a blanket and see what happens? Although no, I still think, do you know how to cook at all ?!

→ Is it really hot in here, or are you that hot?

→ Do you like handsome guys who can do something? Not what you're thinking right now! Where are you looking? Horny? It happens!

→ So, probably, she would have taken me now by force, if not for the people around. Being next to you, I start to be afraid of you!

→ You are the most depraved monster I have ever met.

→ How much can you think about sex! All clear with you. Don't make excuses, I know you all are like that! Okay, get to work. What did the director say?

This opener can be used in different situations. Was there an awkward pause in communication? Then charge and have fun, the demolition of the roof is guaranteed for the girl.

As a result, the young lady is embarrassed and thinks: "Maybe I'm really depraved?", Or laughs, realizing the absurdity of the accusations. Both of those are cool.

And yet, you should not flirt with this opener, because most often he will only scare away the girls.

3. Compliment

- This is the oldest of all existing openers.

Due to the fact that it is used by the majority, almost everywhere and most often, it has lost its potential, and instead of a proudly developing flag of effective entry into communication, it looks more like a tattered gray rag.

Despite this, there are compliments that can really boast of their effectiveness.

In this case, we are talking about unusual compliments - non-standard remarks that emphasize the girl's unique qualities or lack thereof.

The compliment should convey new information about her to the girl, as a result of which she will think: “Wow. I didn't know I was that interesting.” instead of her concluding, “There you go. This is the 937th time I hear the same thing.”

This refers to compliments that do not relate to physical attractiveness.

Such compliments give pleasure to girls and at the same time characterize you as an extraordinary person, automatically highlighting banal admirers from the crowd.

Dancing

Hello, do you happen to dance? You move with such grace.
You have a natural talent that cannot be destroyed.

hairpins

How high are these heels? A lot of women are so funny and awkward in stilettos, but you're so good at walking in them. It's like a lost art. How did you learn?

Get off the dance floor

Hello. I'm very sorry, but I have to ask you to leave the dance floor for one reason...
For what?
You expose other girls in gray because they look small and dull against your background. It's bad and I feel sorry for them. But if you want them to be jealous, let's show them how to have fun.

severity

It should be applied to very self-confident girls.

Hello. You are so strict. Are you a director of some company? The thing is, you look confident, and you seem to know what you're doing. Perhaps people are even afraid to talk to you.

Compliment with intrigue

Hello. You know, I noticed something in you that most guys do not like in women, but I really like it, I appreciate it in girls ...

4. Compliment with a hook

Women are no strangers to accepting compliments, as mentioned earlier.

Therefore, if you decide to hit on a girl, dilute the gray routine of another beauty with a compliment with a clue.

To do this, say the usual compliment, and then hit the girl, but only about those things that she can fix in herself, while not hurting her to the quick and not insulting her.

Speak confidently and in a cheerful manner.

Find in the girl what she is proud of, or what you like about her. Something that constantly attracts the attention of others or in which she considers herself a professional.

Give a girl a compliment and then point out something negative in her behavior, or find something to nag at and then beat it out in a positive way. At the same time, remember that sometimes some variations of this opener can have the opposite effect.

Examples

Appearance.
"You look great. How long did you paint?

The size.
“Very beautiful jacket. I saw this at a fashion show in Paris. It's obvious that you're very good at style. Wait, I don't think she's the right size for you? Or is it a visual trick?

You blink.
"Hi! I was wondering something about you… (pause, wait for her to ask, “What?”) Why do you blink so much?”

There is no taste.
"Great hat. Did you choose it yourself?"

Interesting…
"Hi. You have an interesting walk (complexion, hair, clothes, shape of eyes, lips, ears, neck, energy, aura)!” Keep in mind that, most likely, you will be asked, “What is interesting about it?”

Only.
"Great bag! Very pretty color and very eye catching. It just doesn't fit your shoes. But it is not very striking when viewed from afar ... "
"Great belt. It just doesn't fit well. You know you need to fix it. Let me fix it..."

She's yours?
“Your bag is cool, is it yours?”
“Cool phone, is it yours?”
“Which shoes are interesting, are they yours?”

Real?
"Nice tan. He is real?"
"Beautiful hair. Are they real?
“Nice hair… Is it real?”

Junk.
"Great boots. My grandmother has the same ones."
“What a cool jacket, it looks like a grandfather’s jacket from the front after the Second World War.”

Most of all I like it.
Note in the girl that which does not relate to her appearance and personality: things, clothes, etc.
“What I like most about you is…your handbag. So cool!”

They are different.
“What beautiful legs. One is thinner than the other."
"What beautiful blue eyes, one bluer than the other!"

How much energy do you spend on beauty?
“You are so slim… Are you on a diet?”
“Your legs are so long… How long does it take you to shave them?”

Although…
"Let's go to a cafe. Let’s eat together and talk… Although, maybe we don’t know each other much yet?”
“You are a very sweet and stylish girl, and I like you a lot. I would even invite you to meet ... Although, do you know how to cook?
“You are so beautiful and well-groomed, it’s not a shame to go out with you ... Although, do you know how to dance?

5. Accusation

This opener shows your courage and arrogance, and is designed to embarrass the girl, forcing her, justifying herself, to enter into communication.

You should pronounce this opener in a defiant, but in a joking manner, while you should clearly show who you are addressing.

Examples

Perverted look.
"Oh my God! What a perverted look! Why are you undressing people with your eyes?”

Suspicion.
Suspect a person of lustful intentions:

Looking for something to chill.
What to eat.
Sweet tooth.
Wants to steal something.
For example: “What, are you looking for a snack or something to get drunk? It's hard in the morning, I understand!

Don't paw me.
It is best to apply at and bars. If the girl herself accidentally pushed you, use this opportunity.
“What are you pawing me, look how impudent. Aren't you ashamed to touch me in public? So right away! I didn't even recognize the name! Are you always so cheeky?"

Is it okay that I'm silent?
Coming close to the girl, stand for a minute or two with the air of a person in deep thought, and then dumbfound the unfortunate innocent question: “Is it okay that I am silent?”

Eye to eye.
In response to her look, immediately say: “Stop looking into my eyes. I'm a humble guy!" Then you can add: “Okay, I forgive you…”

Perversion of intent.
Pervert any behavior of a girl so that it is funny.
“You probably dress like that on purpose so that everyone thinks that you work as a school teacher.”
If a girl reads: “Are you probably pretending to read on purpose to appear more educated and to please young people?”
The girl eats: “You probably eat here on purpose so that everyone thinks how cool you are?”
The girl goes to the university: “You probably study at a vocational school, but do you go here so that everyone thinks that you are studying at a university?”
The girl buys something in the store: “You probably buy these things here on purpose so that everyone thinks that you can afford it?”
A girl buys a postcard: "Are you probably buying a postcard so that everyone will think that you have friends?"

Advice is a great way to hit on a girl, showing her your authority and proving that you are an educated person who is a professional in any field.

When you give advice, you put the girl in a very advantageous position for yourself as a student. The student respects the teacher, trusts and obeys him.

Advice can be given for any reason. For example: “Button up your jacket, you can’t wear it like that!” or “You have something on the back of your skirt, let me fix it.”

7. Directive (direct) opener

This opener is sometimes fraught with danger, because it clearly shows your intention, and it is easiest for a girl to beat him off.

But if there is no context, and the stranger really liked it, why not take a chance.

The main thing that you must demonstrate in this case is confidence and perseverance (within reasonable limits, of course).

Examples

You are interesting.
"Hi. I saw you, you seemed interesting to me, and I decided to come up to talk. What is your name?"

Passing by.
"Hi. I'm in a hurry so I can't talk for long. But it seemed to me that you are cool, and I have a desire with you. My name is ... Let's exchange phone numbers, I'll call you in the evening. (Note: when taking a phone number in a flash, girls are often not called.)

What is your name?
"Hi what's your name?" Then you should introduce yourself and use the next opener.

Let's go dancing.
Apply accordingly in the club.

8. Opinion

How to approach a girl? Ask her opinion about something. In this case, the correct appeal to the girl is very important.

Do not directly approach her in order to get an opinion. Act differently: do not turn to the girl with your whole body, turn only your head in her direction, as if initially you did not have a clear intention to speak to her.

If the girl reacted positively, turn your whole body towards the girl, otherwise just walk away.

Examples

Which club is better.
“I want a woman's opinion. Tell me, which club is better: this one or the one that is two streets further?

Psychic.
“My friend went to a psychic. He said that my friend would soon become rich. Do you believe in psychics?"

Relations.
“I need your female opinion. My friend has been dating a girl for three months and she calls him ten times a day. But I think it's an obsession. What do you think?"
You can touch on any topic: jealousy, betrayal, girls fight for a guy (guys fight for a girl is not suitable).
“My friend saw her boyfriend kissing another girl and freaked out, but she loves him. She is even ready to forgive him in order to be with him. But I want her well. What do you think, what should she do?
“My friend found out her boyfriend was sleeping with her roommate. Do you think she should quarrel with her neighbor or not?”

Choosing clothes.
"Hi. I need your opinion as a woman. Which item do you think suits me best?”

Similar but different.
“I want a woman's opinion. Who is cooler in your opinion: Jennifer Lopez or Britney Spears?

situational opinion.
"Hi. Look, I need a woman's opinion. Some girl through my friends asked me to. What should she write? I don't know her at all…”

Lie.
“I want a woman's opinion. Who do you think lies more: men or women?”

9. Joke

A good joke is the most powerful opener, but also the most difficult because the joke has to be actually funny.

Your goal in this case is to make the girl laugh. cool guy- a rarity, which means you are valuable already because you are cool.

Examples

Escalator.
“Today I got a unique opportunity to ride cool with a breeze in a pleasant company. Do you want me to ride you with the breeze too? On the escalator?

Dress.
“This dress looks great on you. Well, actually, and I would look no worse in his place.

Bay, never mind! Here it is, yes!
Should be used when a girl answers a question:

Guess what my zodiac sign is?
Hmm... Cancer?
Bay, what the hell? Here it is, yes!
I guess?

10. Situational opener

Situational openers are the most flexible and natural, but they require you to be resourceful and observant.

The point is to notice something in your environment and comment on it.

The object of your comments should not be about the girl and getting to know her. Comment on the situation itself, people on the street, environment, objects, weather, etc.

Sunglasses.
If a girl is wearing sunglasses with mirrored lenses, then you can ask them to use them as mirrors (comb your hair, for example).

Telephone.
“Did your phone just ring?”

Observant.
"Hi. What are you looking at that is interesting? Beads? I worked as a bead consultant, let me help you choose.”

Weather.
“Girl, how do you manage to survive in this weather?”

In conclusion

As you can see, dear friend, in order to drive up to a girl, you can go in from the flank, but in general it is better to act according to circumstances.

Do not forget that there are no taboos. Sometimes you just have to say out loud, “Hi. What is your name?”, “Girl, hello. How are you?”, “Hi. I saw you, I decided to come up to talk. ”, after which contact will be established.

Hello man, in this article I will tell you about how to drive up to a girl, unfamiliar or familiar, and in general, how, even the most beautiful girl anywhere:, in contact, and so on.

And most importantly, after you read this article, you will go to try it all, and I want to urge you to ensure that failures (Without which nowhere) do not stop you. I wrote about this in an article. Also, I have some great tutorial videos on this topic that you can watch right now. In these videos, I cover this topic in more detail. I don’t really like writing on the blog, I’m still a lazy person, it’s easier for me to speak on camera;). So, I'm better off not reading.

So, to business:

In general, there is no such thing as how to properly roll up to a girl - you can do it the way you want, for which you have enough imagination. The most important rule here is to communicate with the girl from the “Above” position, that is, you do not persuade, do not ask and do not apologize. For example - “Hello, I’m sorry that I distract you, but can I go with you” or “Hi, you look great, I liked you, let's talk for a couple of minutes.” Do you feel the difference? So the girls feel it too, believe my eight years of experience.

Remember a few important rules that we tell our students in seduction training:

Here are the basic rules for how to approach a girl on the street. Let me now tell you some phrases that you can say. For example, "Hi, you are a very unusual girl, you have very unusual eyes ...... especially the right one))))" or for example "The legs are unusual ... the left one is generally super." Or “By the way, you have a very kind face, a very positive and kind nose.”

The most important thing is to communicate simply, while communicating, try to evaluate Her, whether you like her or not, and do not try to think - “How would I like her to do this?”. When you meet her, ask her about her (Does she always walk so unusually, dresses so brightly. How can something fit in such a small bag? She has such a big bag, probably she is a household one))).), also tell something about her - “By the way, you dress so brightly, is it probably because you are a strong girl who wants to be in the spotlight? You have such a gait like an organ worker, you must be serious?”

In general, you need to say the following:

You say something about her.
You ask something about her.
Telling something about yourself

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“I always liked girls with such a walk, with such hair” or “You know, when I look at curly blondes like you, I always remember my first love” ...

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In contact with. And here's how you can drive up to a girl in VK. You write to her - "Hi. By the way, you are a very unusual girl, ”the phrase about unusualness in 80 percent of cases gives the opposite question from the girl -“ Than. You can add a phrase - "There is one very unusual trait in you that guys don't really like .... But I like her…” She will most likely start asking you about the devil. Girls are generally very curious creatures, they are like children.

After that, you continue the dialogue, but try to talk more about her in your messages. About how she looks in the photo, about what her outfit reminds you of and so on. If you ask her questions, then, also something like - “What would you do if you became a cool guy for one day? What guys do you like the most?

Although, personally, I’m only for live communication and live dating in public places, and even if you get to know each other in contact, your online communication should be kept to a minimum, you need to call as soon as possible, then call and invite her to a meeting. I try in general (although I rarely get acquainted on VK) literally after the third or fourth message, ask her for her number - “Listen, write me your number, I will call you and chat for a couple of minutes. I don't like writing."

In club. Let me tell you a few words about how to hit up a girl in a club. In general, the usual street acquaintance in the club, which you can see in my videos in the "Video" section, is not very suitable. This is where the so-called “Three Circles Theory” comes into play. That is, you do not immediately roll up, but gradually. You come to the club, you see a few beautiful girls, you approach them in turn and chat very briefly, literally exchanging a few words about nothing - “How is the mood, what is the name of the cocktail, that she has a cool shiny dress ...”, while you may not even introduce yourself to her. He approached, chatted with one, then went to another.

It's even good that the previous ones will see you with the next ones (This is some kind of PR. You are in demand among women, they will think). This is how the first round went. Then, after a while, you go to the second round. You approach only those who were more active in contacting you, and those who liked you more. Here you already introduce yourself and chat a little longer. The goal is to interest yourself and tell something unusual about her - “you are a very unusual girl, because .... Blah blah blah".
About that, you can read, which will come to your e-mail right now.

Then you also go for a break and after a while you go up to one of them, who you liked more, who reacted better, to the one that fell for you more, and you already take her to chill out (On the sofas, away from the dance floor) and there you are already starting to touch her and excite her.
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So, in that article, I briefly told you how to hit on a girl, phrases to be spoken and basic rules. well and The best way learning how to meet and seduce is, of course, our training on seduction and effective communication with girls.

Let's say you like a girl. This may be a friend, or an unfamiliar one that you first saw. Or even your ex. And you wanted to roll up to her. Of course, I want to do it in an original, beautiful and correct way. . To be able to do this as competently as possible, you should take into account some details and have a plan in your head.

How beautiful to drive up to a girl you like

In fact, making a tackle on a girl is very simple.

The first step is to get rid of various expectations and the end result. If you worry about how this will happen, whether you are doing everything right, then everything will be covered with a copper basin.

Next, decide on a location. If you're going to roll on the street, then this is the coolest option that has many advantages. Firstly, you will improve in street dating and live communication. Secondly, if something goes wrong, you will always have the opportunity to quickly leave and never again cross paths with the girl who started leaking you.

How to originally roll up to a girl in VK

You can do this in VK. Vkontakte is attractive because you sit at home in shorts and don't sweat it. And at the same time you meet girls. But, on the other hand, the chances of hooking a particular girl are much less than on the street. All the pretty girls in this social network have a lot of subscribers and fans who constantly show signs of sympathy for her. She has a huge selection of "virtual" guys, and for such a girl to like VK, you must have very cool pictures.

It doesn’t even really matter whether you write something original to her or not. If your pictures are cool, then this will attract her attention anyway, and she will want to see you in real life.

Here are a few phrases for a tackle on VK:

Hello! Loved the pics, would love to see you in real life
I know something about you! - Her answer - I didn’t even believe it at first - Her answer - I liked that you combine 2 qualities that are basically incompatible, many men don’t like them, but I think it’s even + for a girl!
The easiest way to say "hello". And if she already visually likes you, you can just chat and correspond, and not come up with anything original. And then take her number.

In an educational institution

What if you're still studying? at school or university, then you can do this cool thing: go up to the girl you like and ask you to introduce you to some of her friends, like you, and she can introduce you as her friend. The point here is that you shift the entire focus from her to another girl. And she subconsciously begins to be jealous, they say, he came up unknown guy and asked me to meet her friend. This is where female competition kicks in, and this girl will immediately become interested in you.

Remember one more thing. When you approach a girl, never say that you are getting to know her, and even more so the phrase “can I get to know you?”. This is immediately repulsive. It’s better to say that you just communicate with her, don’t get to know her. And since you communicate, then it will be more difficult for her to send you off.

If you already know the girl, then it's even easier to do it. The main thing is that she would perceive you at least neutrally, and you did not have any jambs in front of her before. If the girl is familiar, then she already has some trust in you.

The next steps in this case should be to create interest and .

Interest can be caused by strong emotions caused by non-standard behavior on your part. You should not put down in front of the girl, give her flowers and make banal compliments. This can only ruin everything.

It is important that the girl sees that you are a cool guy, it is interesting with you, you are well and stylishly dressed, you have cool friends. Even if it's not really true, you can still pretend to be.

To better understand how you can drive up to a girl in real life, you can watch the video of my Moscow colleague.

Practice, perceive the approaches to the girl as computer game. And here and there, at the beginning, not everything works out for you. However, excitement turns on and everything starts to get better. Good luck!

Today we want to tell you how you can drive up to a girl on the VKontakte social network, we will give examples of dialogues and lists of topics and questions on how best to do this. Communication with the opposite sex, and in particular the first acquaintance, plays an important role in the development of relationships in the future. Therefore, it is very important not to make a mistake at the first tackle on a girl and expose yourself with the best side. How this can be done will be our article.

If you have your own proven methods and methods, be sure to write in the comments, we will be very grateful to you.

How to drive up to a girl in VK?

The social network Vkontakte is an ideal platform for meeting the opposite sex. There you can find a huge number of attractive, bright and unusual girls, but you have to be careful. The fact is that some of the fair sex use photographs of other young ladies and pretend to be them. However, in today's article we will not talk about this, but about how to drive up to a girl in VK.

What should I do?

In order to start conquering and breaking women's hearts with your high-flown words, you must prepare your page in advance. More precisely, carefully review it, remove something, and add something. If you don’t know what to do, then ask for help from a girl you know who will definitely help you.

Rules

If you don’t know how to properly drive up to a girl in VK, then try to carefully read this part of the article, since when meeting the opposite sex there are several rules that should be followed.

Do not write to one girl. There's a good chance she won't answer you. Therefore, it is better to write 10 at once. Your message should be original and not boring.
Intrigue her. Write that you supposedly know something about her or something like that. But don't talk until you get her phone number.
Be direct. Let her know that your intentions are serious and you want to get to know her well.

How to drive up to a girl in VK? Correspondence examples

Below we have given several examples of simple but effective tackles on a girl on VKontakte, such dialogues can be played out completely in any social network.

(Correspondence with intrigue)

Andrew- Hi! I know something about you.
Nadya- Hi! Truth? And what?)
Andrew“I couldn't even believe it.
Nadya“What do you know about me if I see you for the first time?”
Andrew“What I liked about you is that you have two interesting qualities that guys don’t quite like.
Nadya— Oh, what are you?! And I'm not surprised. Everyone tells me that I'm not like everyone else. So I'm not shocked by what you wrote. However, I'm interested in what you write.
Andrew- Good. I'll tell you. But only tomorrow.

(Add the girl as a friend, and after some time - write to her)

Paul: Hi, Nastya! My name is Pavel. Do you want to chat?
Nastya: Hello Pavel. Want.
Paul: Excellent! In that case... tell me about yourself))
Nastya: Oh good. My name is Nastya, but you understood that. I am 23 years old. I work as a model, but have not yet achieved much success in this area.
Paul: Well...and I'm an American spy who is spying on you.
Nastya: Wow! Why is this all of a sudden? After all, I'm an ordinary girl.
Paul: Ordinary girls do not become models)) although your appearance is .... mmmm ....))
Nastya: A) I'm not a model because I was joking. b) What is this "MMMM"?
Paul: You'll know soon.