Kind words or polite expressions. Class hour "polite words"

Polite words and courtesies

Polite and kind words are very close to compliments in terms of their impact on a person, so let’s talk about them. We have lost the habit of saying pleasant things to each other “just because”; everyone is internally ready to hear rudeness. Therefore, we always associate a kind word with either flattery or the desire to receive something.

A kind word is simply support, an expression of good feelings.

Politeness is observance of the rules of decency, good manners, courtesy, internal culture.

Courtesy is friendly, courteous words, pleasant, helpful treatment.

“A polite man should treat his wife as he would a stranger, only ten times more polite,” said Bernard Shaw.

Being polite does not mean being intelligent, but true intelligence without politeness, a culture of behavior and a culture of speech is impossible.

The words of Dmitry Likhachev have already become textbook: “You cannot pretend to be an intellectual.”

Psychologists have created the “role and mask theory.” For example, I put on the mask of a brave person - that is, I began to force myself to do brave things - and you see, and indeed, I became a brave person, the role became part of the character, “the mask grew in.” He began to speak polite words and improved his manners.

By instilling politeness in a child, they simultaneously instill moral principles, form moral consciousness, and develop the habit of speaking polite words.

A little boy was given a toy, he was so happy that he forgot about everything.

What should I say? - his mother returns him to earth.

Thank you.

Well done, next time say thank you without a reminder.

A person may not be educated enough, but he is polite enough. Having a diploma and being polite are not the same thing.

Here are some polite words:"Please…". "Please..." "Sorry". "Thank you". "Thank you". "Please". "You are very kind". "Could you…". "My regards". “Don’t consider it a labor...” "I'm sorry to trouble you". “If it doesn’t bother you...” "How can I help you?". “Please do not refuse this kindness...” "Be so kind…". "You are very kind". “You spoke to me very politely.” "I'm happy for you". "Thank you. You served me very well." “You did everything you could for me.” “You did a great job.” “Is there anything I can do to help you?” “I have the honor to take my leave.”

As you can see, this undying old-fashioned courtesy and politeness does not require the expenditure of money. And one more advantage of polite treatment: it causes reciprocal politeness. “As it comes around, so it will respond.” It follows that it pays to be polite. Remember the national trait of the Japanese - excellent politeness and smiles. We're not exactly spoiled by politeness. When they call me on the phone, I pick up the phone and immediately say either “Hello” or “Good morning, afternoon or evening.” It happens that my caller falls into a slight shock, cannot come to his senses for a long time, and then either hangs up or says that he has the wrong number.

However, it is not so simple - politeness must be sincere. Exaggeratedly polite behavior can be offensive. Democritus also said: “If you go too far, the most pleasant things will become the most unpleasant.” Thus, politeness without a moral basis can take the form of hypocrisy, hypocrisy, and mannerisms. The source of good manners and “external graceful behavior” (N. Shelgunov) is love for people, goodwill, which constitutes the wealth of a person’s spiritual world and the basis of his morality. And in the absence of good manners, a sense of proportion and the ability to express one’s moral feelings in the appropriate form, virtue can turn into an insult, excessive courtesy can turn out to be intrusiveness, good nature can turn out to be flattery, and wit can turn into buffoonery.

The opposite of politeness and courtesy is rudeness, uncouthness, and rudeness. Unfortunately, the vaunted “tough” people - strong-willed, brave and strong people - are often just rude boors. Have you not noticed that a rude person is simply ugly in appearance.

There are words that are amazing in their impact - these are conspiracies, slander (fraud), slander, spells... These words have either witchcraft or healing powers if they are spoken by a sorcerer or a doctor, and if, of course, you believe in them. Here is a wonderful “Conspiracy of Love”, imbued with touching hope.

“I will light a candle in the darkness of the night, I will bow to it three times obediently and say the words of the conspiracy: “Oh, you are great, bright spirits, warding off evil attacks from love, you will hear me, begging you, do not extinguish the candle I lit, I lit it with a pure thought: she didn’t lure someone else’s husband, but she lit it for the sake of her beloved husband (groom), promised to me by fate itself.

And I pray to you, bright spirits, endow the fire with your power, good, all-pervading power, protecting love from destruction. You will light a fire in the heart of your dear one, illuminate all the bends in it, shine it to the very bottom - I feel there lies a piece of frozen ice - the fierce jealousy of an evil homewrecker. Melt that prickly piece of ice, turn it back into a flammable tear.

And I also pray to you, good spirits, kindle a fire in the blood of your dear one, so that in love he will be tender and furious and, like a sip of water in the most sultry heat, a kiss will be sweet to him.

And for the third time I pray to you, bright spirits, protect my pure love, save me a beloved husband (groom) with a true heart, indivisible with anyone.”

This is poetry of the soul! Why, in fact, cannot a young beautiful woman be a happy gourmet at least for some time? Those people who demand a lot and give a lot get more. If you behave like a queen, like “priceless” and “desirable,” then men will consider you priceless and desirable. Those who behave like royalty are treated like royalty.

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Methodological development of class hour

"Polite words."

Target: introduce students to the basics of polite communication, both with each other and with adults;

encourage you to think about the reasons for the need for polite communication and the consequences of non-compliance with communication norms.

Methods and forms of work:conversation, group work.

Necessary equipment:posters on the topic, sheets with texts for group work.

Class: 3

Time: 45 minutes

Progress of the lesson.

1. Introductory part.

Teacher (U). Hello children! I said hello to you.

What do you think the word “hello” means? (Wishing you health and happiness)

What does the word health mean to you? Happiness? (Children answer).

2. Introduction.

(U). Uncle Styopa is upset.

This is what he said:

Nastya is a nice girl.

Nastya goes to first grade.

But long ago from Nastya

I don’t hear the words... (“Hello”).

I met my neighbor Vitya.

The meeting was sad:

He came like a torpedo

It came from around the corner.

But imagine!

In vain I waited for a word from Vitya... (Sorry).

And what a word - very expensive!

He said about his granddaughter:

What a shame! I gave her a briefcase

I see - I’m very happy!

But you can’t be silent like a fish.

Well, I would say... (Thank you).

What a word - very expensive!

(Shkatova L.A.)

(U). Guys, I see that you are laughing, indeed, the poems seem very funny, but let’s think about it, is this really so?

(There are two drawings on the board. Scenes: a teenager runs out of the theater, pushing away passers-by as he goes; an adult entered the classroom, the guys stood up).

(U). - Look at the pictures. What does this drawing evoke? And this one? (Children explain)

Why did this drawing evoke one attitude in you, and this one another (Children explain)
- What do you think, what should have been done in the first case? Why is it important to observe norms of behavior and communication? (Children's answers)
- Well done!

3. Conversation on the topic.

(U). We are all different, but we have to find a common language, be able to listen to other people, respect the opinions of other people, and be tolerant of others. I ask you to keep this in mind when you work in groups.

Who wants to become an adult; a successful person?

It is clear that you all want to grow up, become educated, successful people.

I think that our boy also wants this from the first drawing (attention to the drawing).

What does this boy need to do so that when he grows up, he too becomes a successful adult?

Children: Suggested answers:

Learn to communicate with other people correctly, learn to behave, follow the rules of behavior and communication.

(U). What do you guys think, what magical polite words will help this boy gain the respect of others and become a successful person?

(the words next to the first picture are fixed on the board)

  1. Hello
  2. Goodbye
  3. Let me pass
  4. please
  5. Sorry
  6. and so on.

(U). Guys, do you know how polite words appeared in the Russian language?

Words from birth face a cruel choice -
Not every exclamation in a speech could survive.
But it sounds like thank you for all ages -
God bless you for this, brother!
End-to-end facets touch centuries,
And again continuity is alive in us,
And from the old best wishes
Our Russian words are hidden.
(S. Veselovskaya).

These are the interesting poems we just read. How many of you heard a polite word in this poem? What is this word?

Children's answers (thank you).

(U). Very good. How many of you know what this word means? Listen to what one girl wrote in her essay: “It turns out that from this old Russian wish “God bless” the word “thank you” was born - one of the most common polite words in the Russian language. When do we use it? Of course, when we want to say thank you.
In S.I. Ozhegov’s dictionary, the word gratitude means a feeling of gratitude to someone for the kindness and attention shown, and special polite words that exist in the Russian language help us express this feeling: thank you very much, thank you, goodbye, please. The simplest words at first glance, but how much meaning lies hidden in them for every person. After all, none of us can do without a polite word. Probably, all people want to be polite, but this does not always work out, since they forget about another way of showing politeness - greeting. There are dozens of greeting methods in Russian: “Hello”, “Good health”, “My respects”, “Welcome”, “Nice to see you”.
We open our eyes in the morning and hear mother’s voice: “Good morning!” Throughout the day we say: “Good afternoon”, “Hello”. We say hello to mom, dad, grandma, grandpa, brother, sister. You can say hello to the kitten by tickling it behind the ear, and say “Good afternoon” to your neighbors and teachers! So, the whole day, until finally evening comes and we go to bed, saying “Good night” to everyone!

It seems to me that it is so pleasant to live in a world of polite words: everyone is smiling, polite and kind, and what words, what speech, is like at a royal ball. After all, it is these words that have a positive impact on a person: they console, cheer up, make him responsive, soft, good-natured. Polite words are nice to hear and say. I would like only polite speech to be heard around me, so I myself try to speak politely...

I'm very glad to see you

“Hello,” I’ll say now.

And when I leave,

“Goodbye,” I’ll say to everyone.

There are many different words in the world,

Very different words.

But say “thank you”

Good deeds to everyone."

(U). Did you like this essay? What polite words and expressions did you hear in him? (children's answers)

4. Physical exercise. Exercise “Up the Rainbow”.

Stand up, children. Close your eyes, take a deep breath and imagine that with this inhalation you are climbing up the rainbow, and as you exhale, you are sliding down, like down a slide. Let's do this several times. Your mood and feelings will improve.

5. Group work.

(U). What did we learn about in today's lesson?

Children: About polite words.

(U). I propose to play a little and answer these riddle questions. Just remember that you need to behave politely, don’t interrupt anyone and don’t shout out answers from your seat:

"Polite words"

Even a block of ice breaks up from a warm word... (thank you).

The old stump will turn green when it hears... (good afternoon).

If we can’t eat anymore, we’ll tell mom... (thank you).

When we are scolded for pranks, we say... (sorry, please).

In both France and Denmark they say goodbye... (goodbye).

(U). And now we will try to analyze the situations and decide how to act correctly in them.

The class is divided into groups of 5-6 people.

Each group is given the task: read the text, discuss the situation, listening and respecting the opinion of everyone in the group, and determine which rule of polite behavior is violated in this case. Decide who will be the speaker for each team, who can competently express the group’s opinion

(sheets with situations are distributed) Situations.

1. It’s Masha Vasilyeva’s birthday. She invited several friends to her party. Everyone had a lot of fun. But soon it was time for the guys to go home. Vitya grabbed his coat and boots first, quickly got dressed and ran out the door, slamming the door loudly.

Question for discussion in the group: Was everything in Vitya’s behavior correct if there were other children (boys and girls) at the holiday, as well as Masha’s parents? What should I have done politely?

2. Petya Ivanov was returning home from school. It had rained before and there were puddles on the roads. The boy walked in rubber boots and stomped heavily through puddles. A girl in a beautiful coat walked past. Petya didn’t notice her right away, and when he once again stamped his foot in the puddle, he splashed the girl’s coat. The girl stopped and cried, and Petya moved on.

Question for discussion in the group: What should Petya have done?

3. Sveta Pugovkina was going down the stairs when her retired neighbor was walking upstairs with a heavy bag. The girl quickly ran past the elderly woman and went out into the street.

Question for discussion in the group: What did Sveta forget to do? What else would you do in her place?

4. Tolya Petrov quickly ran home from school. He was in a hurry to see his favorite movie and therefore ran, almost not making out the road. The boy ran into a pedestrian and knocked him down, while he himself fell and scattered books from his briefcase. The pedestrian stood up, helped Tolya get up and collect the books that had fallen on the road. Tolya grabbed his briefcase and ran home.

Question for discussion in the group: What would you do if you were Tolya?

5. Kostya Emelyanov has a birthday. He invited friends to the holiday. His classmate Yura also came. Yura brought a gift wrapped in beautiful paper. Kostya grabbed the gift, quickly tore off the packaging and saw that there was a wind-up machine inside. “Well…” Kostya drawled disappointedly, “I already have one,” and threw the gift into the box of toys. Then he turned away from Yura and extended his hands for the gift that his classmate Zhenya had brought him.

Question for discussion in the group: What should Kostya have done in such a situation?

6. Summing up the lesson.

(U). Well done! I see that all the guys understood why magic polite words are needed and how they should be used correctly in various situations. I also hope that you will not forget them and will use them more often.

Thank you for the lesson!

List of sources:

  1. To the class teacher about the class hour. Ed. E.N. Stepanova,

M.A. Alexandrova. – M.: TC Sfera, 2004.

  1. http://liter.assistancerussia.org/liter.php?proizvid=10447blogi.vitebsk.biz/tuttsie/1305/
  2. http://images.yandex.ru

Politeness is an essential sign of a well-mannered person. It manifests itself in the ability to communicate in a beautiful, competent, and most importantly, friendly language with people of different ages and professions. What are the main qualities of a polite person?

3 rules for polite people

The development of one’s own personality is impossible without observing generally accepted rules and etiquette that everyone should know.

  1. A polite person does not forget to say when meeting. He also always says goodbye when parting, apologizes if he caused inconvenience to someone and thanks for any services rendered to him.
  2. Another sign of politeness is the ability to treat others with respect, regardless of their social status. Courtesy and goodwill should be shown not only to those older in age or rank, but also to colleagues, subordinates, as well as to people who have not been able to realize themselves in life.
  3. A cultured and polite person does not harm others. He treats requests with due attention, is always ready to help and does not participate in gossip. He does not forget to smile, because a courteous smile is the key to success in many matters.

Rudeness and lack of restraint always repels interlocutors and becomes a serious obstacle to achieving desired goals. Those who choose this format of communication find it difficult to make friends, earn the respect of others, and even achieve success in their careers.

How to become a polite person

Beautiful, literate speech is an integral companion of politeness. You need to be able to monitor your voice. He should be calm, reasonable and not very loud. It is necessary to exclude obscene language, name-calling, and slang expressions from your vocabulary. The development of politeness is facilitated by studying books about the rules of etiquette and reading classical literature. You should never interrupt your interlocutor - it is tactless. Do not forget that both sides have the same right to speak. This is called dialogue.

Politeness for all occasions

It is important to be cultured and friendly always and everywhere, be it a business meeting or a simple visit or a store. Below are examples of polite behavior in various everyday situations.

  • Behavior at the table during meals can say a lot about a person's upbringing. The main rule in dining etiquette is to not cause inconvenience to others. That is, you should chew with your mouth closed, do not put your elbows on the countertop, and avoid activities not related to eating. You cannot stand up and bend over the table to reach bread or a plate. You should ask the one who is closest to bring the desired treat.
  • A polite person respects nature. He will not throw waste after a picnic in the place where he rested or throw garbage past the trash can within the city. those who want to develop their inner world never leave dirt behind them.
  • We must not forget about politeness and at home with loved ones. Criticism, commanding tone and harsh words can hurt feelings. Knowing this, a polite person will not hurt other people, especially loved ones.

True politeness is formed not only from memorized beautiful phrases. It characterizes a lifestyle and personifies a person.

What polite words are there in Russian?

The Russian language is powerful and multifaceted. Since ancient times, great importance has been attached to various courtesies and polite words. These include greetings: “hello” or “good afternoon.” Farewells: “goodbye”, “see you soon”, “good night”. Requests: “be kind”, “excuse me, please”, “wouldn’t you be so kind”. Expressions of gratitude: “thank you”, “thank you”. Wishes: “be healthy”, “success”, “bon voyage”.

Daily use of these words in your vocabulary speaks of good manners and high morality.

Polite child. How to raise him?

You need to teach your child to be polite from an early age, when he just begins to speak. There are several tips to help you do this correctly.

  • Little children love to play. They don't like to learn boring rules. Therefore, you can instill in them good manners in the form of a game. For example, arrange a tea party according to all the rules of etiquette with the participation of toys and, of course, parents. You can act out polite dialogues that need to be used when surrounded by strangers or come up with other situations.
  • Parents should use polite words when talking to each other and to their child. A commanding tone and shouting with a baby are unacceptable, even if he does not obey. He must do what is asked of him, for example, collect toys, but at the gentle request of mom or dad.
  • If a child shows a clear protest, is rude, demands to be given something that is not allowed, you should not respond to such behavior, much less encourage it. It is better to put on a mask of indifference and completely ignore the screams until they subside. Do this every time until the baby speaks politely and calmly.

First of all, the rules of polite people must be followed by the parents themselves. They must show the child by example what culture, restraint and respect mean. Raising a child is impossible without a prosperous environment at home.

How is male politeness demonstrated?

In the modern world, polite behavior is often regarded by members of the opposite sex as flirting. This applies to both women and men. In order not to get into an awkward situation due to ignorance of the basic rules of etiquette, you need to be able to distinguish sympathy from the limits of decency.

For example, a man always holds an open door for a woman and lets her through. He helps a lady get out of the car, kisses her hand when meeting her, takes off her hat, and gives up her seat on public transport. When leaving the room, he hands her outer clothing or helps her take it off upon entering. Representatives of the stronger sex are required to carry weights instead of women, regardless of the closeness of their relationship.

An intelligent man will never talk to his companion about her age, character flaws or appearance. He will not raise topics that will be offensive or unpleasant to her. And also will not show up to a meeting in inappropriate appearance.

Benefits of Polite Behavior

Politeness develops in a person many things such as compassion, mercy, accuracy and self-respect. Each of them plays a large role in personal growth and even destiny.

All doors open to a well-mannered person, because he knows how to control himself under any circumstances, has a subtle and sensitive mental organization, and also has a sober and clear mind. He generously gives warmth and joy from communicating with him, which helps him take his rightful place in society. And this is not a complete list of evidence that it is good to be a polite person.

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Happy child 30.01.2017

Dear readers, today on the blog we will raise a difficult but very important topic - how to teach a child to be polite? In our time, this topic is especially important. Many children are not taught basic things. And, of course, it all depends on how much time the parents spent and taught the child to be polite, and what example they set themselves. What do parents and loved ones need to do for this, and what, on the contrary, should they refrain from doing?

We will try to find answers to these and other questions in the article. The presenter of the column, Anna Kutyavina, will share her thoughts and ideas about instilling politeness in children. I give her the floor.

Hello, dear readers of Irina’s blog! We all want our children to grow up successful and adapted to life, to be able to realize themselves and reveal their talents and inclinations. Modern society dictates its own rules: if you want to live, know how to move around. So we try to adapt our precious children to the changing future as much as possible, stuffing them with new knowledge and teaching them some skills with all our might. Classes, sections, clubs - all this is an important part of a child’s life from an early age.

Training your mind and body is very important and necessary. But, alas, we increasingly have to deal with emotional difficulties in children. Parents cannot always cope with aggression, anxiety, and disobedience of their sons and daughters. And they, in turn, feel difficulties in communicating with peers and the older generation, do not know how to constructively express their feelings, and generally behave correctly in society. Smart, good, well-trained boys and girls.

You can let the situation take its course, arguing that in our difficult times all these communication skills are not the main thing. It will be necessary to learn on your own. But this is not always the case. And the ability to communicate, build relationships with people, be polite and respectful, according to many experts, should be cultivated primarily in the family.

And now I suggest you talk about politeness. How to teach a child to use polite words? How to conduct a conversation with children on the topic “Polite words”? Let's take a closer look.

What is politeness?

First, let's remember what it means to be polite? By definition, politeness is a human character trait that involves having good manners, the ability to communicate tactfully and courteously with others, and being sensitive and respectful. A polite person must have good manners and know the rules of etiquette.

Synonyms for the word “polite” are courteous, attentive, respectful, gallant, respectful, amiable. Antonyms for the word “polite” are harsh, rude, ill-mannered, discourteous.

And we should definitely talk about this with our children. We adults understand the meaning of the word polite, but children may misunderstand its meaning. And it would be good to give examples of antonyms.

It is difficult to expect that polite manners will appear in a child on their own. Their upbringing requires personal example in the family, as well as targeted teaching of polite words. This is the only way we can achieve lasting results.

In addition, it is necessary to constantly support and encourage the desire to be polite in children. After all, there are so many temptations and deviations from the desired norm around! From all sides you can hear rude words, profanity, and people addressing each other incorrectly. Alas, not even all teachers have competent speech and good manners. And it can be very difficult to resist universal pressure.

Polite words and thanks. List of words

A “basic” list of polite words to teach your child includes the following words:

Greetings and farewells:

  • Hello;
  • Hello;
  • Good morning or Good morning;
  • Good afternoon;
  • Good evening;
  • Goodbye;
  • Good night.

Words of gratitude:

  • Thank you;
  • Thank you;
  • Grateful.

Words of forgiveness:

  • Sorry;
  • Sorry;
  • Excuse me, please.

Request words:

  • Let me;
  • Let me;
  • We can ask you;
  • Please.

Words of support, parting words, invitations, congratulations:

  • Bravo;
  • Bon Voyage;
  • Be healthy;
  • Welcome;
  • Help yourself;
  • Enjoy your meal;
  • Nice to meet you;
  • Let me introduce myself;
  • Only after you;
  • Will you be so kind;
  • Yes, I can help you;
  • Let me help you;
  • Congratulations.

Riddle poems about politeness for children

To learn these words with children, special riddle poems have been invented:

Having met a bunny, the hedgehog is a neighbor
He tells him: “...”
(Hello!)

And his neighbor is big-eared
Answers: “Hedgehog, …”
(Hello!)

Don't be too lazy to tell your friends
Smiling...
(Good afternoon!)

Clumsy dog ​​Kostya
The mouse stepped on its tail.
They would quarrel
But he said "..."
(Sorry!)

If you step on your foot
At least by chance, at least a little,
Just say: “I’m sorry”
Or better – “...”
(Sorry!)

Saying goodbye to each other
We'll say...
(Goodbye!)

Wagtail from the shore
Dropped a worm
And fish for a treat
She gurgled: “...”
(Thank you!)

If grandma is in the morning
I gave you a pie
Take it, say “...” -(Thank you!)
Grandma will be happy!

Fat cow Lula
She was eating hay and sneezed.
So as not to sneeze again,
We will tell her: “...”
(Be healthy!)

Kicked out the cuckoo Roma
A strict nanny from home.
To everyone who will pamper,
To the house...
(Welcome!)

If the parrot Gosha
He will give a good concert in the jungle,
Everyone will applaud
They won’t forget to say “…”!
(Bravo!)

Lisa Matryona says:
“Give me the cheese, crow!
The cheese is big, and you are small!
I’ll tell everyone that I didn’t!”
You, Lisa, don't complain,
And say: "..."
(Please!)

Crocodile from the swamp
Didn't go out for the longest time.
Members of the toad council
They gave him a prize for this -
Awarded with a parrot
And they shouted: “...”
(Congratulations!)

If we bake cookies,
For a treat for all my friends,
We will tell them: “Don’t be shy,
To your health..."
(Help yourself!)

Deer at two o'clock
The fox came to visit.
Fawns and deer
They told her: “...”
(Good afternoon!)

Moth at sunset
Flew into the light.
We are, of course, glad to meet you.
Let's tell the guest: "..."
(Good evening!)

Katya baby Ignatka
Put me to bed in bed -
He doesn't want to play anymore
Speaks: "…"
(Good night!)

Girl Rita near the path
The table is set for the dog and cat.
Having arranged the bowls, Rita will tell them
“Eat! Have a nice day..."
(Appetite!)

Children Dasha and Egorka
Pizza cheese is grated.
The mice are asking from the hole:
"Give! Be..."
(So ​​kind).

Politeness lessons in poetry

A bear about five or six years old
Taught how to behave:
- When visiting, bear, you can’t roar.
You can't be rude or arrogant.

We must bow to our acquaintances,
Hats off to them
Don't step on paws
And don't catch fleas with your teeth,
And don't walk on four.

No need to slurp and yawn,
And who yawns to his heart's content,
He should cover it with his paw
A gaping mouth.

Be obedient and be polite
And give way to passers-by
And respect the old.
And grandma bear
In fog and ice
Accompany you home!

So Mishka is five or six years old
Taught how to behave...
Although he seemed polite,
He remained bearish.

He bowed to his neighbors -
Foxes and bears,
I gave up my place to acquaintances,
He took his hat off to them.
And strangers attacked
The whole heel is on the paw.

Sticking my nose where it shouldn't be,
He trampled the grass and crushed the oats.
Belly up
In public on the subway.
And the old people, the old women
Threatened to break a rib.

A bear about five or six years old
They taught us how to behave.
But, apparently, the teachers
Wasted time!

Another good poem about politeness:

We all learned sometime
Walk, draw, talk.
Let's remember, guys,
How to be kind and polite.

Meeting friends and acquaintances,
I look into their eyes with a smile,
Being polite is very easy for me
I'll be the first to say hello.

Someone came up with a beautiful idea -
Thank you for your help,
The usual word "thank you"
We must not forget to speak.

Saying goodbye, we all say goodbye
We always tell each other
“Please” - if desired
Or we want to fulfill the request.

There are so many useful things in the world,
Beautiful and affectionate words.
Please just be polite
After all, this is the basis of the basics.

And it’s very easy to be polite:
Be kind - the usual advice,
It doesn't matter how tall you are
And how old are you?

Discussing the topic of politeness in the form of a conversation

Discuss poems with your children, ask questions, provoke them to think and remember. For the little ones, choose bright and colorful books with poems. After all, poems have rhymes, they are easy to remember, along with the very rules of behavior.

Start a conversation about politeness in a light and relaxed atmosphere. Remember that the child should not immediately understand why and when to say polite words. And to help him are heroes of poems, cartoons, and fairy tales, which will clearly show why one must be polite.

Fun game "Polite Clock"

It’s great to play the fun game “Polite Clock” with your child. You can play it with one child or with several. Ask the children to pretend to be a clock. Two hands are arrows, they walk in a circle on an imaginary dial.

Mom (or teacher):

Tick-tock, tick-tock -
The clock goes like this.
The clock struck seven in the morning,
All the kids were woken up.

Children clap their hands seven times to imitate the striking of a clock: bom-bom.

The morning has come
The sun has risen...
Answer me guys
What should you say when you wake up?

Good morning!

Game continues. The arrows are moving again; The clock is ticking and now shows twelve o'clock in the afternoon.

The day has come, guys;

Good afternoon

The game continues in the same way.

The arrows ticked and walked
And six o'clock struck.

Children clap their hands six times.

The evening has come, guys.
What should you say when you meet?

Good evening.

Well done!

In such a simple and easy form, a child, even a preschooler, will quickly remember polite words. But simply repeating these words to a child all the time, forcing him to solve riddles is not the solution. It is very important to clearly explain in what cases certain words are said and to set your own example. In families where it is customary to communicate politely with each other, to say “thank you,” “please,” “excuse me,” children usually grow up to be more polite. This is how much the personal example of parents and loved ones gives.

Steps to teaching politeness in children

To teach a child to be polite, experts recommend adhering to the following rules:

Be sure to use polite words yourself in situations where they are needed . It is very important that such behavior and communication become the norm in the family and close circle of the baby;

Show your child how “magic” words work in practice: do not rush to fulfill his requests without saying “please” followed by “thank you”, etc.;

Always be the first to say hello, goodbye and thank you , without waiting for the child to remember about it;

Together with your child, develop personal mandatory rules of politeness: @ who needs to be greeted, etc.;

If a child interrupts you or takes you away from an important conversation, give up lectures and moralizing. – they still won’t bring the desired effect. It’s better to teach your child in advance phrases like: “Please forgive me for having to interrupt you.” But also be an example for your child, without interrupting him or herself and without unnecessarily interfering in someone else’s conversation;

Consider the child's age and do not demand from him the impossible;

Praise your child for success in the difficult task of teaching politeness.

In general, as usual, it’s worth starting with yourself. Objectively and impartially evaluate how politely you behave with your loved ones, among friends, with educators and teachers in kindergarten and at school, in transport when it is not very comfortable and your legs are crushed, while driving in a traffic jam. Especially when there is a child nearby. And even if testing results are not the best at the moment, you can always start improving them. Get a grip on yourself now! After all, a child will certainly copy you in the most unexpected situation and inappropriate place, be sure of that!

Teach your children to be polite, find the right words themselves and learn useful science together with your children. After all, this is an invaluable contribution to their future! And may you always be pleased to watch how your sons and daughters behave. What is not a reason to be proud that you raised polite and good people?

Happiness to you and your children!
Anna Kutyavina, psychologist, author of articles and fairy tales, owner of the Fairytale World website

Russian speech is filled with polite (magical) words that bring goodness, joy, and hope to humanity. Pronouncing useful phrases makes people more responsive, softer, and more cultured. Let's assume there are no polite expressions in the Russian language. Significant changes will follow immediately. A worthy deed will go unnoticed, a simple request will become an order, ordinary speech will seem impudent, will cause discontent, ruin the mood...

Children and adults taught magic words realize the power of spoken language, reinforcing personal and business success. It is important to be able to speak kind words in a timely and sincere manner.

Greetings upon meeting and contact

  1. Hello (you live well, we wish you health)
  2. Good morning (good afternoon, good evening)
  3. Hello (greetings, hello, salute, hello)

When getting to know each other

  1. Hello
  2. Introduction: first name, last name, patronymic
  3. Nice to meet you
  4. Nice to meet you

Words of gratitude

  1. Thank you
  2. Thank you
  3. Grateful
  4. Touched by the attention
  5. Our respect

Words when apologizing

  1. Sorry
  2. Sorry
  3. I'm sorry
  4. Regret

Words of request

  1. Please
  2. I beg
  3. Show kindness, generosity

When saying goodbye

  1. Good Bye! See you later)
  2. All the best (all the best)
  3. All the best
  4. Good luck

When talking on the phone

  1. Hello
  2. Good morning (good: afternoon, evening)
  3. Hello
  4. Do you have time to talk?
  5. Is it convenient to have a conversation now?
  6. Thank you
  7. Touched by the attention
  8. Goodbye (meetings)

List for children

  • Hello;
  • good morning, good afternoon, good evening;
  • Excuse me, please;
  • Thank you;
  • Good night;
  • Goodbye;
  • Please;
  • allow;
  • let me ask, find out, inquire;
  • Bon appetit;
  • let me help;
  • help yourself or take it, please;
  • Nice to meet you.

Is it important to say polite words?

People live surrounded by magic, reflected in natural phenomena, art, and everyday life. The power of magic lies in words spoken constantly in infinite quantities. Surprisingly, with phrases and expressions the interlocutor can hurt, offend or inspire, delight, amuse.

How to ensure that the communicating individual receives positive energy?

People want to hear nice words. Pronouncing polite phrases fills the soul with warmth, light, hope, and peace.

Adults, kids, teenagers have verbal magic

It is important to skillfully use magic, teach children kind, useful phrases, and correctly use magical expressions. A sufficient number of polite phrases are used every day during meetings, acquaintances, requests, farewells, and telephone conversations. You need to remember the “magic” phrases, pronounce them on time and correctly.

Thanks to polite words, people are able to do good, make a pleasant impression when meeting someone, and find a true friend, girlfriend, life partner, or business partner.

People are constantly convinced of the magical power of polite expression, regardless of the purpose. In the morning, when meeting a neighbor, friend, fellow student, a boy, a girl, a pensioner greets them by saying “Hello”, “Hello” and is sure to hear a warm greeting. People are inspired, charged with positive energy, the warmth of words inspires positivity, and a smile appears.

Farewell is necessarily accompanied by the phrases “See you”, “Goodbye”, which confirm the importance of communication. The interlocutors express friendliness and give hope for new meetings.

What to do if you need help?

You should ask, sincerely saying, “Please help,” “Please do me a favor.” The interlocutor to whom kind phrases are addressed will pay attention and will definitely show goodwill.

What words are used when meeting a girl, guy or manager?

It is important to make an impression so that they are noticed, appreciated, want to continue communication, and invited to work. There are a lot of polite expressions when meeting someone - “Allow me to introduce myself,” “Nice to meet you,” etc. The main thing is to say it sincerely, as sincerely as possible. The interlocutor will definitely show interest, appreciate your intelligence, and understand how pleasant it is to communicate.

It's harder to apologize

You need to choose the right polite words and say them with a feeling of great regret. This will help restore previous relationships with your partner, friends, and family. Phrases of apology make people feel better. The interlocutors soften and show goodwill.

The importance of using polite words is undeniable

Magic expressions and phrases help to win over your interlocutor, evoke positive emotions and attention. People who use useful words, phrases, expressions are pleasant, attractive, and interesting when communicating. Polite words lift your spirits and allow you to enjoy peace of mind, regardless of age, gender, status, or employment.

Words of politeness must be spoken constantly; they are the key to successful activities in everyday life!

What are the rules of politeness when speaking?

Rules of politeness- the most basic canons of a well-mannered citizen. A polite person is a true friend, a pleasant companion, a welcome guest.

There are many laws of politeness when communicating with a large number of people or two people. The main thing is not to forget to pronounce, correctly and timely use the magic words.

In addition to knowledge, the use of kind phrases and expressions: the need to demonstrate competent behavioral tactics when talking with an interlocutor:

  1. When a stranger makes a request, you need to put things aside, show maximum respect, and take an active part in the conversation.
  2. Interrupting the person leading the conversation is bad manners. You need to listen carefully, be patient, and wait until the end of the conversation. Comments, hints, and expressions of opinions during the interlocutor’s story are inappropriate.
  3. Is the conversation taking place surrounded by people? You should show culture; you cannot react to speech addressed to the person sitting next to you.
  4. The tactless behavior of a communicating person must be gently stopped and the conversation stopped.
  5. Is there a discussion going on or insulting people? Try to change the topic of conversation.
  6. A long conversation is considered bad manners.
  7. Communication involves showing politeness, attentiveness, and tact. Does your interlocutor need to leave urgently? You need to end the conversation in a timely manner. It is necessary to change the topic of conversation if the people present are not interested in listening.
  8. Non-standard phrases should be excluded. The meanings of expressions may be unknown or incomprehensible to the interlocutor.
  9. When communicating with a friend, acquaintance, relative, you cannot criticize, discuss, or slander absent people. Otherwise, an unpleasant environment will be created. You need to say good things about those who are absent, or just remain silent.
  10. Communicating and waving your arms is a sign of bad taste, showing the individual’s bad manners. You need to clearly and clearly express your own thoughts.

The information provided will help you understand the importance of polite expressions. By pronouncing magic phrases, people make the world around them bright, kind, and rich.